When I first started to give my body a break with a detox or cleanse on a regular basis, I ate the same things repeatedly. It worked well for me because I didn't have to think much about it. One of the biggest challenges with honoring a detox is the mental shift required to find satisfaction in foods I may not eat consistently. This time, I've decided to add some variety and try some of the recipes I've collected.
With that said, this seems like a perfect time to share my food explorations for those who may see a detox as punishment. In my experience, many people feel like they are going to starve during a detox. Don't get me wrong, I get hungry. But I get hungry everyday. I'm used to that. The key is to prepare so I don't fall into the habit of eating what is convenient.
I'm excited to share a few new things I tried for Day 4 so stay tuned. Here's to food that is good to us and for us!
Life, Health and Prosperity,
Ashiya
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Friday, August 9, 2013
{Self-Care} Summer Detox 2013
"All it takes is 10 days EACH month to naturally cleanse your body for OPTIMAL health and vitality!"-Koya Webb
I'm late in the season, but I'm finally taking on my summer detox. I'm joining wholistic health and wellness coach Koya Webb for her monthly detox which she begins on the 10th of each month for 10 days. If you're interested in joining in this month or next, see the rules below.
Koya offers shopping lists, food and juice recipes to support participants in their journey. One of my biggest challenges right now is maintaining variety as I continue to build healthier eating habits. This detox will be about delighting food foods that are just as good to me as they are for me.
For more on Koya and to take a look at her products that may assist in your own detox, visit her online at www.koyawebb.com
Life, Health and Prosperity,
Ashiya
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
{Self-Care} The Dry Brush Massage
Ama is a gourmet raw vegan chef, author and public speaker as well as a committed educator and program director. Ama has supported adults and children in a variety of areas and she currently uses her experience in education to support clients of Opare Integrative Health Care, which she co-owns with her husband Dr. Nana Kwkau Opare. Dr. Opare began practicing medicine in the mid-80s and has combined his background in food, nutrition, dietetics acupuncture with medicine to create a integrative practice that serves the mind, body and spirit of their clients.
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| Ama Opare and Dr. Nana Kwkau Opare of Opare Integrative Health Care, Atlanta, GA. |
The Opares include the dry brush massage as part of their juice fasting protocol. Ama was kind enough to share their protocol below if you are interested in adding it to your self-care routine or next detox.
"During the fast a dry brush massage is done daily before the morning shower. The body releases toxins through the skin. The brushing aids the sloughing off of dead skin sells. Use a natural bristle brush with a long handle. Do not use nylon or synthetic fiber brushes, they are too sharp and may damage the skin.
Starting at the feet brush in circular motion until skin in rosy. Follow the direction of the arrows below. Red indicates moving downward, blue moving upward. Move up the front and inside of the legs, the front of the body, and then down the inside of the arms.
Next, move up the back of the arms and then down the back of the body and the back and outside of the legs."
Opare Health Care
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| Courtesy of Opare Health Care, Atlanta, GA. |
Connect with Opare Integrative Health at www.opare.net for more info on their juice fasting protocols available online soon. Get other health news, healing techniques, recipes and more from The Opares on Facebook and Twitter.
Thursday, June 27, 2013
{Master Teachers} Know Thyself
Now that I have this figured out, join me as I begin a legacy of life, health and prosperity:
Ashiya
Thursday, June 13, 2013
{Master Teachers} My Swan Dad
I love natural teachers. It is always easy for me to identify those people who love to share their knowledge simply because it is too good to keep to themselves. When I first met my Swan Dad, I had no idea he would become my Dad, but I knew he would be a wonderful teacher if my friendship with his sons continued. Almost 15 years later, I can't imagine my life without his wisdom.
For some time I thought it was because of all the knowledge and the love he shared with me, but now I understand something more. As SWAN and I continue to grow in our marriage, I see more of his father in him. All of the qualities I find admirable in my Swan Dad, I see My Love express in his own way.
My husband is simultaneously one of the strongest, but most sensitive men I've ever met, much like his father. They are humble, but confident; extremely intelligent, yet unapologetically silly when needed. They have a pure heart and everything they do is motivated by the love of their family. More than anything, they have an honor and regard for women that has been a source of love, healing and comfort for me for as long as I've known them. Watching our brother become a wonderful father to a son of his own is further evidence to me of the depth of love My Swan Dad constantly gives to his children.
"When you find someone you truly love and you know it is meant to be, marry them. Everything else will fall into place."
"When you do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life."
"Comfortable is dangerous."
"People who don't like a challenge will find a way to not to like you for accepting one."
"If there's no one in your sphere that has better ideas than you, you are in the wrong sphere."
Happy Father's Day to our Dad, our mentor and most importantly, our friend.
Life, Heath, and Prosperity.
Ashiya (and SWAN)
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| 150 MPH at the Chicagoland Motor Speedway |
For some time I thought it was because of all the knowledge and the love he shared with me, but now I understand something more. As SWAN and I continue to grow in our marriage, I see more of his father in him. All of the qualities I find admirable in my Swan Dad, I see My Love express in his own way.
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| Father and Sons. |
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| Me and My Swan Dad on my wedding day. |
In honor of Father's Day, here are a few of his thoughts on love, life and business that remained with me and SWAN over the years. Rest assured, he'll make another appearance here as a Master Teacher. Every conversation with my Swan Dad holds a potential lesson.
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| My Swan Parents |
"When you find someone you truly love and you know it is meant to be, marry them. Everything else will fall into place."
"When you do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life."
"Comfortable is dangerous."
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| Family vacation in Hawai'i. Yes, Hawai'i. |
"People who don't like a challenge will find a way to not to like you for accepting one."
"If there's no one in your sphere that has better ideas than you, you are in the wrong sphere."
Happy Father's Day to our Dad, our mentor and most importantly, our friend.
Life, Heath, and Prosperity.
Ashiya (and SWAN)
Thursday, June 6, 2013
{Self-Care} Accountability. Alignment. Action.
Earlier this week, I got the most random, motivating call from my best friend, Shavonna. Random motivation is nothing new to us, but the timing of this call was... divine.
At the moment the phone rang, I was actually thinking of Shavonna. When I answered the phone in disbelief, she sounded just as shocked to hear from me.
I knew what was happening. Just a few days before, I made a commitment to Shavonna and myself to practice yoga everyday for 30 days to rebuild my daily practice. There are times when practicing 3-4 times during the week will keep me balanced and focused; however, I am entering a phase of life where deeper daily practice is necessary. I scheduled the time to practice and was just about to find a reason not to when the phone rang. What else was I supposed to do but roll out my yoga mat and practice?
Each year, Shavonna and I manage to mesh our health and wellness goals in some way. In the last two years, we both launched new businesses in health and wellness, naturally creating bigger goals personally and professionally. Without a doubt, being accountable to Shavonna over the years has been a large part of each goal I've achieved. {Thank you, Lillian!}
This year, it was only natural to bring Vanya Francis into our accountability circle. Not only did we all graduate from Spelman College together in 2001, but Shavonna and Vanya are co-owners of Om Point Yoga, a boutique yoga company in Atlanta, Ga. Additionally, Vanya and I act as peer coaches as we have a mutual interest in women's wellness. Because our friendship and purpose have intersected with our personal and professional goals, we solidified our accountability circle by choosing three words to keep us focused as we progress towards our goals. When we face a moment of decision, recalling these three words offer us a reminder of where we want to be.
Accountability
Accountability is a word that speaks directly to community. It is a reminder that our actions not only affect us, but those who may be helped by what we do. Being accountable to each other holds us accountable to our goals.
Alignment
We all receive opportunities to grow our businesses, but we've come to a place where we realized that every opportunity is not going to lead us where we want to be. We always make sure our decisions are in alignment with our goals and our choices support our personal and professional vision.
Action
At some point, there is nothing else to think about. The only thing to do is act. When we become clear on our goals, we become clear on our decision and our circle prompts us to act without delay.
If you set resolutions for yourself at the beginning of the year and have already abandoned them, here is your chance to renew! If there is something that you have wanted to do for years and you still want to do it, this is a call to action! Call up your circle, share your desires and choose powerful words to connect you to your purpose.
Life, Health, and Prosperity,
Ashiya
At the moment the phone rang, I was actually thinking of Shavonna. When I answered the phone in disbelief, she sounded just as shocked to hear from me.
"Ashiya, I'm not sure what's going on right now. I answered a text from someone else and now you're on my phone."
I knew what was happening. Just a few days before, I made a commitment to Shavonna and myself to practice yoga everyday for 30 days to rebuild my daily practice. There are times when practicing 3-4 times during the week will keep me balanced and focused; however, I am entering a phase of life where deeper daily practice is necessary. I scheduled the time to practice and was just about to find a reason not to when the phone rang. What else was I supposed to do but roll out my yoga mat and practice?
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| Shavonna and I on a stop at the Grand Canyon in 2002 as we drove into the "Masters" phase of life. ATL to LA in 3 days. |
Each year, Shavonna and I manage to mesh our health and wellness goals in some way. In the last two years, we both launched new businesses in health and wellness, naturally creating bigger goals personally and professionally. Without a doubt, being accountable to Shavonna over the years has been a large part of each goal I've achieved. {Thank you, Lillian!}
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| Vanya Francis and Shavonna Warthen of Om Point Yoga, Atlanta, GA. Accountability. Alignment. Action. |
This year, it was only natural to bring Vanya Francis into our accountability circle. Not only did we all graduate from Spelman College together in 2001, but Shavonna and Vanya are co-owners of Om Point Yoga, a boutique yoga company in Atlanta, Ga. Additionally, Vanya and I act as peer coaches as we have a mutual interest in women's wellness. Because our friendship and purpose have intersected with our personal and professional goals, we solidified our accountability circle by choosing three words to keep us focused as we progress towards our goals. When we face a moment of decision, recalling these three words offer us a reminder of where we want to be.
Accountability
Accountability is a word that speaks directly to community. It is a reminder that our actions not only affect us, but those who may be helped by what we do. Being accountable to each other holds us accountable to our goals.
Alignment
We all receive opportunities to grow our businesses, but we've come to a place where we realized that every opportunity is not going to lead us where we want to be. We always make sure our decisions are in alignment with our goals and our choices support our personal and professional vision.
Action
At some point, there is nothing else to think about. The only thing to do is act. When we become clear on our goals, we become clear on our decision and our circle prompts us to act without delay.
If you set resolutions for yourself at the beginning of the year and have already abandoned them, here is your chance to renew! If there is something that you have wanted to do for years and you still want to do it, this is a call to action! Call up your circle, share your desires and choose powerful words to connect you to your purpose.
Life, Health, and Prosperity,
Ashiya
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
{Master Teachers} Lady M.
A Swan Life is a space dedicated to the people, places and things that bring me life. Growing older has helped me to understand the real impact my family, friends and associates have had on my life and more of the lessons, love and laughter we've experienced will flow through this space.
I've been blessed with wonderful Master Teachers, but none more influential than my maternal grandmother. With love and respect I refer to her here as Lady M. because it is a title that fits her well. If you know her at all, I'm sure you would agree.
As I share old and new lessons, I will properly introduce each teacher; however, Lady M is someone who should always introduce themselves.
During a brief chat this morning, she shared with me about believing from the heart and reminded me she was my first yoga instructor.
And that is Lady M.
I've been blessed with wonderful Master Teachers, but none more influential than my maternal grandmother. With love and respect I refer to her here as Lady M. because it is a title that fits her well. If you know her at all, I'm sure you would agree.
As I share old and new lessons, I will properly introduce each teacher; however, Lady M is someone who should always introduce themselves.
During a brief chat this morning, she shared with me about believing from the heart and reminded me she was my first yoga instructor.
"People just don't realize we are of one breath. One Spirit. And what we do with that Spirit is up to us. We think of ourselves or other people as "good" or "evil" Spirits... It is all up to us and what we do."-Lady M.
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| Lady M captured by me during my preteen years. |
And that is Lady M.
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